Couple Money Podcast

oday we’re answering your marriage and money questions – choosing financial goals, raising credit scores, and how to start an emergency funds!

Answering Your Marriage and Money Questions

Welcome to another community mailbag episode, where we tackle your marriage and money questions. And we have some great ones today.

These past two years have been challenging for many in our community because of the uncertainty. For some couples, the big goal is to get back to their financial goals because they've hit the pause button for a while. Not getting any worse with their finances, but not making the progress that they want to.

Today, we're going to focus on how to get back on track by honing in on key goals to tackle this year.

We also have some couples looking forward to buying a house in the near future so something that they want to do now is to raise their credit scores to hopefully qualify for uh, competitive mortgage rate.

Finally one lesson that's really sunk in these days is the importance of having a financial cushion. The first step with that is getting a starter emergency fund up. How do you jumpstart that process?

We have so much to cover today. So let's get started!

Resources to Win with Your Money

Want to go ahead and tackle your big marriage and money goals? Here are the resources we mentioned in today's episode along with some extras!

Thank You to Our Sponsor Coastal!

learn more about our podcast sponsor coastal credit union

Support for this podcast comes from Coastal Credit Union. If you’re living in the Raleigh Durham area and looking to bank better, come check out Coastal today!

We've been members for years and love their service and competitive rates on checking and savings accounts!

 

Rollover Your 401(k) Easily with Capitalize

We’re grateful for wonderful partners like Capitalize. Not only do they support the podcast, but they help make managing your money so much easier. 

Did you know that it’s estimated that there are currently over 24 million “forgotten” 401(k) accounts? In fact, the average American changes jobs every 4 years

And because of the Great Resignation, you or someone you know might be changing jobs even more 

It’s an extreme case of out of sight and out of mind. Is your old 401(k) in there somewhere, left behind at a job you're no longer with?

One huge benefit with an IRA is you get to choose how your money is invested, not your old employer. 

If you want to consolidate your old 401(k) and have more options with how you invest, it may be time to roll them over into an IRA.  

With Capitalize, they handle the process from start-to-finish – for FREE. They handle the process from start-to-finish, and yes that includes calling the 401(k) provider on your behalf. 

Find out how and get started today!

Support the Podcast! 

If you enjoyed this episode and found it helpful, here are some ways to support it.

  • Spread the word. If you have friends who could boost their savings, please share this episode with them on social media or just email the link!  
  • Leave a review. Every review helps! Please share your honest feedback on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher
  • Visit our Couple Money Toolkit for more info on available apps, tools, and services to master your money together.
  • Become a Patron. 

Special Thanks! 

The music today was provided by various artists over at Audiio.

Direct download: 8_Marriage_and_Money_Mailbag.mp3
Category:personal finance -- posted at: 10:57am EDT

Want to retire early, but your spouse isn't ready? Learn how Jamila and her husband got on the same page with financial independence and saved over $80,000 last year! 

Getting on the Same Page with Financial Independence

Wouldn't it be fantastic if the two of you were instantly on the same page with your finances?

Even though we’re at a place where we’re on the same page with major goals, there’s still times where we have to sit down and figure out the details about how to go about. We try to find solutions that we’re both happy with. 

It could be one of persuading the other or it could be putting together a third option. In other words, don’t be surprised when two of you aren’t instantly on the same wavelength. 

I believe that’s a strength with marriage – you two are seeing and testing ideas out from different perspectives. 

That’s why I really connected with what Jamila said at the top of the show. You can sometimes be enthusiastic about tackling your debt, saving more, or investing towards retirement and your spouse….ehh..not much. 

Since you’re in this together, how do you get your spouse on board, especially when it's a huge shift with your finances? 

That’s why I’m excited to share from the archives an interview I had with Journey to Launch creator Jamilia Souffrant since she’s been down this path. She has gotten her husband on board with drastically increasing their savings so they could pursue financial freedom and independence.

In this episode, we get into:

  • how she and her husband first handled their money and paid down debt
  • discovering financial independence and winning him over
  • how they work together with money and created a system that respects both their styles

Hope you enjoy! 

Handy Resources for FI Couples

If you’re looking to get ahead with your finances as a family, here are more resources to check out!

Thank You to Our Sponsor Coastal!

learn more about our podcast sponsor coastal credit union

Support for this podcast comes from Coastal Credit Union. If you’re living in the Raleigh Durham area and looking to bank better, come check out Coastal today!

We've been members for years and love their service and competitive rates on checking and savings accounts!

Rollover Your 401(k) Easily with Capitalize

We’re grateful for wonderful partners like Capitalize. Not only do they support the podcast, but they help make managing your money so much easier. 

Did you know that it’s estimated that there are currently over 24 million “forgotten” 401(k) accounts? In fact, the average American changes jobs every 4 years

And because of the Great Resignation, you or someone you know might be changing jobs even more 

It’s an extreme case of out of sight and out of mind. Is your old 401(k) in there somewhere, left behind at a job you're no longer with?

One huge benefit with an IRA is you get to choose how your money is invested, not your old employer. 

If you want to consolidate your old 401(k) and have more options with how you invest, it may be time to roll them over into an IRA.  

With Capitalize, they handle the process from start-to-finish – for FREE. They handle the process from start-to-finish, and yes that includes calling the 401(k) provider on your behalf. 

Find out how and get started today!

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Direct download: 7_Getting_on_the_Same_Page_with_Financial_Independence.mp3
Category:personal finance -- posted at: 8:49am EDT

Fast rising rents can break a couple’s carefully planned budget. Learn six strategies that can help lower your rent and keep more money in your pocket! 

Getting a Deal on Your Rent

One of the biggest expenses for couples is housing, especially when it comes to renting in a high cost of living area.

According to Realtor.com's Monthly Rental Report, on average the cost of rent was 10.1% higher in 2021 than in 2020. 

Living in the Triangle area of North Carolina, we’re seeing rents rise fast. We’ve heard from multiple friends how quickly their rents have jumped. 

There have been plenty of news stories about it. Rents in Durham 20.1% and here in Raleigh going up 22.1%.

Since our theme this month is about saving you money, I’m glad to highlight my chat with Justin Pogue. He's an asset & property management professional and the author of Rental Secrets.

Justin shared with me some strategies that can help you get a better deal on your rent and save some serious cash. 

In this episode we get into:

  • Six strategies to lower your rent
  • Biggest mistakes he sees renters make 
  • What to look to for when apartment hunting

Are you ready? Let’s get started! 

Resources to Boost Your Savings Rate

Want to start boosting your savings rate? Here are some resources to check out:

Thank You to Our Sponsor Coastal!

learn more about our podcast sponsor coastal credit union

Support for this podcast comes from Coastal Credit Union. If you’re living in the Raleigh Durham area and looking to bank better, come check out Coastal today!

We've been members for years and love their service and competitive rates on checking and savings accounts!

Rollover Your 401(k) Easily with Capitalize

We’re grateful for wonderful partners like Capitalize. Not only do they support the podcast, but they help make managing your money so much easier. 

Did you know that it’s estimated that there are currently over 24 million “forgotten” 401(k) accounts? In fact, the average American changes jobs every 4 years

And because of the Great Resignation, you or someone you know might be changing jobs even more 

It’s an extreme case of out of sight and out of mind. Is your old 401(k) in there somewhere, left behind at a job you're no longer with?

One huge benefit with an IRA is you get to choose how your money is invested, not your old employer. 

If you want to consolidate your old 401(k) and have more options with how you invest, it may be time to roll them over into an IRA.  

With Capitalize, they handle the process from start-to-finish – for FREE. They handle the process from start-to-finish, and yes that includes calling the 401(k) provider on your behalf. 

Find out how and get started today!

Support the Podcast! 

If you enjoyed this episode and found it helpful, here are some ways to support it.

  • Spread the word. If you have friends who could boost their savings, please share this episode with them on social media or just email the link!  
  • Leave a review. Every review helps! Please share your honest feedback on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher
  • Visit our Couple Money Toolkit for more info on available apps, tools, and services to master your money together.
  • Become a Patron. 

Special Thanks! 

The music today was provided by various artists over at Audiio. 

Direct download: 6_Stratgies_to_Save_and_Lower_Your_Rent.mp3
Category:personal finance -- posted at: 7:17am EDT

Looking to hit your money goals faster? Today we’ll share one couple’s best tips that allowed them to save half their income! 

How to Save More Than Half Your Income

Did you know that ‘saving more’ was one of the top three goals for finances for 2022? Actually as I’ve been reviewing the data from Fidelity’s Financial Resolutions Study, I’ve noticed it’s been there for several years. 

Understandably so because there are plenty of goals families are saving up for. 

You have specific goals: an emergency fund, vacations, down payment for a home or money to start a business. You could be stashing away money towards your 401(k) or IRA so you can have something for retirement. Or you want to help out your kids with college or wedding expenses. 

Wait, maybe 50% isn’t enough. 

Sometimes it does feel that way. 

Hopefully it does highlight why it’s so important for all of us to get into the habit of saving. 

The good news is all this month we’re going to examine different stories and ways you can not only save money, but still have a life. 

By looking at how other families manage their money, you can test them out and see which ones work best for you. 

Which is why I’ve pulled this conversation I had with Matt of Distilled Dollar from the archive. He’s definitely someone I’d consider a super saver, but that wasn’t always the case. 

As you’ll hear he and his now wife had over six-figures of student loan debt. 

In our chat,

  • Matt breaks down what motivated him to pursue financial independence and become a super saver
  • how they approach their spending (it’s not a traditional budget)
  • some hacks they do to keep their expenses low living in Chicago

Are you ready? Let’s get started! 

It’s not your typical millennial money story.

  Hope you enjoy!

 
Elle Martinez         
How to Save More Than Half Your Income with Distilled Dollar           How to Save More Than Half Your Income with Distilled Dollar          
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

If you’re looking additional ways to save half your income, please check out my interview Joe and Kathleen of Stacking Benjamins.

Resources to Boost Your Savings Rate

Want to start boosting your savings rate? Here are some resources to check out:

Thank You to Our Sponsor Coastal!

learn more about our podcast sponsor coastal credit union

Support for this podcast comes from Coastal Credit Union. If you’re living in the Raleigh Durham area and looking to bank better, come check out Coastal today!

We've been members for years and love their service and competitive rates on checking and savings accounts!

Rollover Your 401(k) Easily with Capitalize

We’re grateful for wonderful partners like Capitalize. Not only do they support the podcast, but they help make managing your money so much easier. 

Did you know that it’s estimated that there are currently over 24 million “forgotten” 401(k) accounts? In fact, the average American changes jobs every 4 years

And because of the Great Resignation, you or someone you know might be changing jobs even more 

It’s an extreme case of out of sight and out of mind. Is your old 401(k) in there somewhere, left behind at a job you're no longer with?

One huge benefit with an IRA is you get to choose how your money is invested, not your old employer. 

If you want to consolidate your old 401(k) and have more options with how you invest, it may be time to roll them over into an IRA.  

With Capitalize, they handle the process from start-to-finish – for FREE. They handle the process from start-to-finish, and yes that includes calling the 401(k) provider on your behalf. 

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Getting Out of the Paycheck to Paycheck Cycle

Back in 2014 Matt and his now wife were carrying a ton of debt. He was 24 and she was 23 and between the of them, they had around $150,000 in student loan debt. 

This huge amount of debt was affecting their relationship. 

We were obviously heading in the wrong direction. I mean we wouldn't fight about money but there was this underlying current strife and turmoil associated with paying off our loans.

Matt – [2:05]

What's amazing is that they have gone from being deep in debt to becoming financially free. 

They dumped all of their $150,000 of student loans in four years! 

It wasn't an easy process, but it's doable.

Matt shared the strategies and tactics that pushed them to save 60% of their income.  

Looking to dump your debt or reach your dream faster? Learn the strategies and tools Matt and his fiancée used to save more than half their income - while still having fun! #saving #money #marriedlife

Financial Freedom, Not Deprivation

No matter how you look at it, a 60% savings rate mean there is a serious drop in spending. 

Now you might be thinking that this means you deprive yourselves of fun, but that's not the case. 

Many times as you define clearly what you want (financial freedom), you begin to see that there are opportunities to dig deeper to still have fun without the needless expenses. 

Here are some of their big money wins:

  • Live tiny, save big. By skipping out on the extra bedroom and strategically hunting for a place that was close to work, they were able to save about $12,000/year. 
  • Skip the car. Tied to finding the place for them, by focusing on a location where walking was a viable option allowed them to dump the car and all of the associated expenses. That meant they could save over $8,000/year. 
  • Meal plan like a champ. Matt saves a ton of time and money with this one. Lunches out with coworkers can quickly add up. Matt thinks they easily save $5,000/year by cooking more at home. 
  • Seek low-cost entertainment. Eating out and going to the movies can be a fun and expensive way to relax. they now watch most of their movies at home and explore free events around Chicago when they want to have a night out together. They estimated about $300/year saved with just the movies at home switch. 

So with these five changes, they saved over $25,000 a year! Do you see how focusing on big wins can speed up your timetable? 

If you want more ideas on how you can save, I created a free course – 5 Days to $5K – that will take you step by step on having big wins without spending a ton of time. Most of my tips can be implemented in about 20 minutes.  

Implementing Instead of Just Reading

Matt admits that it wasn't an issue of not understanding personal finance that was keeping them in this cycle of debt.

He estimates that at that point he had read over 100 personal finance books!

Those books made no difference until he started implementing them. As they started seeing those wins (some big, some small), they were encouraged to keep pushing on. 

As you read some of the big wins they had, did any jump at you? Remember implementation is the key here. 

I don't expect all of them to apply to you, but you two should be able to track out one or two of them and see how it goes. 

You may not save as much as they did, but you can still have some huge wins under your belt (and extra cash in your wallet). 

If you don't know where to start, my suggestion is to first be very aware of your money. do you two know exactly how much is coming in and going out? 

There are some fantastic apps and more that will help you keep tabs on your money. some of my favorites out there include TillerPersonal Capital, and  Mint.

You can also review the Couple Money Toolkit for more ways you can slash your bills, grow your money, and invest wisely. 

Support the Podcast! 

If you enjoyed this episode and found it helpful, here are some ways to support it.

  • Spread the word. If you have friends who could boost their savings, please share this episode with them on social media or just email the link!  
  • Leave a review. Every review helps! Please share your honest feedback on Apple Podcasts or Stitcher
  • Visit our Couple Money Toolkit for more info on available apps, tools, and services to master your money together.
  • Become a Patron. 

Special Thanks! 

The music today was provided by various artists over at Audiio.

This episode was originally released January 2017. Shownotes and podcast have been updated Febraury 2022.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Direct download: 5_Save_More_Than_Half_Your_Income_While_Still_Having_Fun.mp3
Category:personal finance -- posted at: 12:46pm EDT

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